Why The Afro By Nature Curl Maker is the Best Thing for Curling 4C Hair

 I had promised that I’d post this review and giveaway of the Afro by Nature Curl Maker by weekend but here I am, hat in hand, late again, hoping all at once that you noticed and didn’t notice. Also, I didn’t specify what weekend. Could have been December, lol. I’m joking, please don’t stop reading. 

Afro by Nature is proudly Nigerian and their Curl Maker has been a staple in my stash for a couple of years. The first time, I received this (and the banana conditioner) from the owner who wanted my opinion. I loved the results so much that I repurchased the large size. Yet somehow I still didn’t do a review or Instagram post about it. Kind of like that artist you love, whose every lyric you know, but you keep them to yourself? How bad of me. Here we go.

 The Afro by Nature Hi Definition Curl Maker comes in a white pump bottle, it’s a thin clear gel and smells... milky, like milk sweets. Unexpected, but not mad at it.

Ingredients: Aloe vera gel, marshmallow root extract, flaxseed gel, slippery elm, coconut oil, extra virgin avocado oil, optiphen plus.

Stellar list. Clean. 

How I used it: braidouts and twistouts. 

On the bottle it lists every kind of curly style possible. If you’re on the brand’s Instagram, you’ll have been tantalized by videos of single coils. With what looks like a quick flick of the wrist and a slick of the curl maker, it transforms even the wildest, undefined fros into tame springy curls. 

If you have the patience for this, try it. Me? Never have. You see wash & go, straw curls, finger coils, any kind of tiny curl- I have neither the patience nor the desire. If I were to try any of the above though, it would be because of the Curl Maker. 

My Results

I’ve had many successful braidouts and twistouts in my life, but the results from this product amazed me. I couldn’t believe it. Looook. The twists above became this the next day:


Even my bangs laid down. That never happens! There’s a reason I’m called Afro Medusa ūüėĄ

 Usually I have to be extra careful separating sections with any curly style because my hair loses curls easily. One wrong move and boom, my fresh curls default to an afro. The difference with this product is that I can separate my hair freely without losing the curl. Do you know what it means?? To touch and pull and fluff my hair and still have defined curls. 



This was the result of 9 single braids. Oh and not a single crunch whatsoever. My hair remains soft, yet defined as heck.

It won’t replace your favourite detangler but it definitely helped me with the process, which is no surprise considering it has marshmallow root and slippery elm.

Where to buy: afrobynature.ecwid.com in Nigeria. It costs N3500 for a 250ml bottle. 

Psst! They’re coming soon to the UK!

Giveaway Time!

I’m giving away two bottles of the Curl Maker to two people who read my blog. It’s limited to Nigeria only, sorry. All you have to do is follow me on Instagram and leave a comment below on this post, with your IG username and what style you want to try with the product. If you don’t use Instagram, fair enough. Just say so in the comments and complete the rest. C’est tout! I will announce the winners on September 1st.

Affordable Nigerian Hair Products: Shanyi Organics Review

First Post of 2020! I'm laughing at how excited I am to be back in my space.
This is a review and I’m doing a giveaway too so please read through okay?
Photo: Shanyi Organics instagram: @shanyiorganics

 Shanyi Organics is a Nigerian brand of hair products.
They've been making affordable hair products since the earlier days of the natural hair movement in Nigeria. They've rebranded twice, I think, and each time they’ve improved quality and packaging.
 They unveiled their new line and spoiler alert, I'm impressed. The ingredient lists make me so happy. It shows real work. I'm a diy-er and none of them is something I can throw together in my kitchen. More than that, the products work. So proud of them because I've watched them grow and now their products can compete internationally.

Let's do this in the order in which you might use the products:
  Shampoo: The Deep Cleanse 2-in-1 Conditioning Herbal Tea
First of all, it's not black soap based. This is me leaping up and punching air because our prayers have been andsweredt! Finally, a Nigerian brand breaking away from black soap. We'll talk about all the whipped shea butters another day. No hate on either one, we just need more options fam.
Ok, back to the review. Tea is the right word because of its consistency- it's quite thin and clear, not cloudy or creamy.

Ingredients: Deionised water, sugar beets, soap nuts, coco betaine, glycerine, decyl glucoside, PQ 7, jojoba oil, vitamin E oil, botanical extracts, essential oil blend, citric acid, preservative.
colour: golden amber
smell: peppermint.  In fact the entire line is Lavendar and mint so that's what they smell like. I like minty stuff so this is right up my alley.
Action: Lathers gently, enough suds to clean without stripping. If you decide to pour half the bottle on your head, then you may get barrels of foam. Believe me, that is not necessary.
 I don't ask too much of shampoos so it upsets me when they cause dryness and tangles. Just clean and go your way. This one delivered and added the bonus of a tingle, thanks to the essential oils. Brownie points Shanyi, because tingly shampoos are a joy to my scalp.
Since cowashing has fallen out of favour with the natural hair oracles, this shampoo is mild enough for those who wash frequently but don’t like to cowash.
For a simple weekly wash, one lather was enough.
When my hair had buildup + lots of oil in it, I rinsed and repeated twice.
Results: Clean, smooth hair + a happy scalp.

Deep conditioner: Goodbye Breakage Deep Restorative Smoothie

Pink, thick, minty. You can see the herbs in this DC and in their other conditioners, but they’re all very smooth so you can’t feel them on your hands or see any residue in your hair.

Now it's thick, but still quite water-based so it sank into my hair quickly and felt light, like a leave-in. I was doubtful at this stage because most of my favourite DCs go on creamy and heavy so I thought this won't work well. Boy was I wrong.
Ingredients: deionised water, manshanu butter, chebe powder, psyllium husk, jojoba oil, sweet almond oil, aloe vera extract, D-panthenol, lanolin, biotin,hydrolysed silk proteins, PQ 47, BTMS, Cetyl alcohol, botanical extracts, essential oil blend, preservative.
Results: When I rinsed off, my hair felt soft and fluffy and hydrated. I noticed less breakage too. Colour me impressed.

Leave-in conditioner: Knot-Free Moisturising Milkshake

This is supposed to moisturise and detangle.
Ingredients: Deionised water, coconut milk, aloe vera gel, shea butter, lanolin, botanical extracts, sweet almond oil, vegetable glycerin, cetyl alcohol, BTMS, essential oil blend, preservative.
Again, pink and minty. Medium thickness, pourable. Reminds me a lot of 'pink oil' from childhood, but much better quality and ingredients.

Results: I found it properly softening and hydrating, whether on damp hair after deep conditioning, or on dry hair during the week.
I detangle at every step of wash day, starting from the pre-poo stage so I can't speak much on its detangling properties by itself as my hair is already detangled at this point in wash day, but this entire line easily made my hair tangle-free.
Really happy with it.

Syler: Curls Delight Curl Sculpting Souffle

Thickest girl in the crew. pink. Minty.

Ingredients: deionised water, shea butter, cocoa butter, flax seed gel, aloe vera gel, argan oil, almond oil, glycerin, Cetyl alcohol, botanical extracts, essential oil blend, preservative.
Results: Made it easy to twist my hair smoothly. Very hydrating. VERY. My hair felt soft for ages and stayed moisturised for days. Fixes dry hair right up.
The downside to all this moisture? Hair that takes forever to dry. I've used it twice on wash day and my hair was still damp the next morning so my curls did not form. Next time, I'll use this on dry hair and see how it works out. Or I’ll use my hooded dryer.
A+ for moisture. Missing script for definition. I will update.

Oil: Growth Magic Hair & Scalp Elixir
Ingredients: palm kernel oil, castor oil, hemp seed oil, jojoba oil, cayenne pepper, neem extract, amla extract, onion extract, ginger, garlic, horsetail extract, henna, stinging nettle, liquorice, essential oil blend, vit E oil.

 It's pale yellow, liquid at room temp and semi-solid in the cold because palm kernel oil has similarities to coconut oil.

Semi-solid because it’s the middle of winter
It smells herby and minty so don't be scared of the onion, garlic and ginger in the ingredients. It doesn't smell like food. The ingredients floored me I tell you. Premium scalp stimulating agents in a blend of quality oils. With a lineup like this I don't need several different bottles of oil. It contains more than I could ever mix. I can't recommend it enough. my friend who's Indian praised the ingredients as well.
Use it for all the things oils do: scalp massage, seal in moisture, pre-poo/detangle, stimulate edges, did I leave out anything?

Daily Moisturiser: Moisture King daily Hair Juice

Ingredients: Deionised water, aloe vera juice, lemon grass extract, sunflower oil, vitamin E oil, castor oil, glycerin, preservative.
So wash day is over. This one is for keeping hair moisturised until next wash.
It's in a nifty spray bottle, pink, minty but also a bit lemony and you can smell the aloe I think. it comes out like a very light liquid jelly and it sinks in quickly.

Results: soft, moisturised hair with no buildup. Exactly what I want. Maybe it's the cold but these days I don't like to use straight water to moisturise. I want something a bit thicker that won’t spray on my neck or shoulders. This checks all the boxes.

There is not a single bad product. I'd repurchase every single one of these proudly Nigerian products.
To buy: shanyiorganics.com
The entire range costs N15000 ($42). The shampoo, leave-in and hair mist are N2500 ($7), the DC and styling soufflé are N3000 ($8.40) and the oil is N3500 ($9.80) which I think is great value.

These are my honest thoughts. I received the products courtesy Shanyi, but I have received no payment or compensation for reviewing them.
   I'm hosting a giveaway on Instagram from Shanyi Organics. They asked me to give away two of my favourite products but it's been tough choosing, it took me weeks to give them an answer. I eventually decided on the Deep Restorative Smoothie and the Growth oil because I think they're essential.
The rules are easy as pie (I hate giveaways with too many instructions).
I am @naijagirlnextdoor on Insta. Thanks for reading and participating!


Hairstyle Inspiration: Silver / Grey Box Braids

My first time doing grey box braids, they were short and crocheted in. This time, I went for full on silver box braids. I was going on holiday to Istanbul and in the spirit of hot girl summer, they are long; down to my bum. ayyy!

I used two different brands of grey braiding hair. The first brand is African Dream. Believe it or not, I’ve been holding on to two packs of this hair for four years. They were left over from my first grey box braids in 2015. Got it from Pak Cosmetics in Finsbury Park, London. They have a website now, pakcosmetics.com

Colour codes for the grey extensions I used are 51 and 44.
44 is darker, it's a steel/gunmetal grey mixed with silver. 51 is my favourite. It’s lighter, with more silver in it.
For reference, colour 60 is pure silver, almost white. The jury's still out on 60.

Source: ikickshins.net
From left to right, 51, 60 and 44

I actually wanted to do all 51 but I had one colour 44 of African Dream, so I ordered two more packs of colour 51 from Jazzy Hair, for £2.49 each, making a total of four packs of hair.
Both brands are quite scanty so and I had to compensate by making very big sections at the back. Next time I'll do six packs. If you go for a much fuller look normally, I suggest eight packs.

I ended up loving the dimension that the darker grey added so I think I'll add one or two colour 44 packs again the next time I do these silver braids.

The colour completely changed my look and sometimes my personality even. Lol. If I don't have all silver hair when I get old, I'm going to be so mad. Haha.

I can't believe how much attention this hair got in Istanbul. I lost count of the people who told me they love my hair. It was described as original, authentic, so nice, beautiful.
They’re so generous with compliments. I got countless “you’re so beautiful” everyday. My confidence is flying right now.

Some wanted more information, "Is it extensions?" Yes.

"Which part is your hair?" The black bit.

"Who does it for you?" I do it myself.
"Really?!" Yeah, mhmm.
"Will you braid for me too?" I laughed.
 "No,  I'm serious." His beautiful face was serious.
Unfortunately I was leaving for England the next day so I promised to braid his hair on my next trip.
Next time you see this face, he'll have beautiful braids framing it.

It was an exciting trip to Istanbul. I have a post in the works with lots of tips and valuable info to share if you plan to visit that beautiful city.

So, would you try grey / silver braids? What's your go-to holiday hair?
Please like, share and let's talk in the comments. <3


The Best Places to Visit this Summer

London, Summer '17

It’s summertime! My favourite time of the year because it’s the best time to travel; when all the best summer destinations are warm and sunny. I love sunshine and bikinis and sunglasses and ice cream. What can I say, I’m biased. I’m Nigerian okay; I was born in the heat, I can’t stand cold and I’m certainly not going to fly halfway across the world on holiday for teeth chattering and hiding under blankets. Everyone else thinks this way, so travel costs tend to skyrocket during summer. Except now it’s so cheap! There are Cheap Flights to all the best places worth travelling to this summer.
Travelstart is doing a Summer Sale. The last time they had a massive sale on flights was Black Friday. Everything was sold out before noon the same day. I know because I tried to buy a dirt cheap ticket to London and it was all gone. *Cries in Pounds sterling*

The best places to travel to this summer:


It’s my favourite city because I’ve been there a bunch of times, had a blast each time and it’s like a second home. Like most Nigerians, I have lots of family and some close friends there so guess who doesn’t have to pay for accommodation? Hehe. If you want to shop, this is the best time to go because all the stores are on sale and you’ll get clothes you can rock year-round in Nigeria. I’m about to cop one of these cheap flights from Lagos to London before you people finish everything.

London, Summer '15


Everyone has to visit New York at least once. In the summer it’s even more alive and pulsating. There’s so much to do: concerts, festivals, food trucks, outdoor movies, ball games, tennis games, theme parks… My mom and my sister were together in New York last summer. I was so jelly. I haven’t been yet, but my friend Adaeze keeps telling me how we need to go to New York and explore hundreds of food spots because apparently New York is a food mecca and she knows that food is the way to finally get me. I just want to get on one of these cheap flights from Lagos to New York. I’ll come back fat and happy; summer body be darned.


Dubai has been on my radar for years, but money. My friends and I have been talking about a girls’ trip since forever. A couple of them have gone on their own (traitors) and they won’t let us hear anything else. It’s hard for all of us to be buoyant at the same time but with flights from Lagos to Dubai this cheap, I’d say we’re running out of excuses.


South Africa has kind of been aggressively promoting travel to their country and to be honest I’m sold. The tourism there is live. It's like a merger of the big city experience in places like Jo'burg and prime wildlife in the parks. Sisi Yemmie has gone a number of times and always shares what she gets up to. Johannesburg is different from the other places I mentioned above. Because it is in the southern hemisphere, it’s actually colder from June to August and not crowded; unlike December to February when it's hot and more people are visiting. So if you want to escape Lagos heat, there are unbelievably cheap flights to Johannesburg. Room rates are lowest this time of year too.

I’m getting serious wanderlust. I must do my own Summer ’18 too. Are you in?


Vacation in Lagos: Whispering Palms Resort Badagry Review

Hello everyone,
Last month I had some time on my hands and went on a 3-day vacation to Whispering Palms Badagry. I didn’t plan to blog about it but at the end of my stay, I knew I had to review it. It was an experience. Everyone that saw my Insta stories wanted to know where I was. 

The plan was to go to a place that would feel like we were not in Lagos at all, without actually leaving Lagos. The major requirement: water. Nothing comes close to the feeling I get beside a natural body of water. The peace and calm, and then you dip a toe in, aaahhhhh. Next thing I’m fully considering how to leave my whole life behind to live on the beach and forage coconuts.

There are a number of waterside resorts in Lagos but the price tag per night can be intimidating for regular people like me. When I saw Whispering Palms online for N15,000 per night, I was excited.  They’re right on the Lagoon front. We called them a few days before and packed our bags the night before the trip. 
We had set off before we remembered how costly food and drinks can be in places like this, so we stopped at a supermarket to get bottled water and snacks- apples, popcorn, bread and spreads; and then Gin, limes, mint leaves and Limca to make cocktails! I was so ready.

The Journey
The trip to Badagry took longer than we expected. That Lagos-Badagry Expressway has potholes here and there so it will slow you down. We took along someone who lives there or we would have stopped several times to make sure Badagry was still ahead. From Ikate Lekki, it took 3 and a half hours.  Me, I slept off. We kept joking that we are definitely outside Lagos. Our tour guide wasn’t having it though: “It is still Lagos”. He works in VI and goes to and fro every day. RESPECT. I could never. The good part is the map turned out to be very accurate so you don’t need a guide.

Sign by the Express. The Resort is still 20-30 mins in.

Whispering Palms
We finally saw the sign for Whispering Palms on the other side of the road and we cheered while making the turn. If only we knew we still had a 20-30 minute drive ahead of us. Haha. We FINALLY arrived at Whispering Palms and it was instantly so worth it. 
No noise, clean air, palm trees everywhere. I didn’t know I was going to do a blog post when I went there so I didn’t take many pictures, but I will share what I did take. We also wanted to minimise use of our phones and it made us truly absorb and enjoy everything.

You can plan a day trip or you can stay over. Entry fee for a day trip is N2000 for two people. If you’re lodging, you won’t pay the fee.
They are busy during festive periods. December is peak period. I prefer when it’s quiet so May was perfect.
Parakeets by the reception

The Rooms
They have a main building with classic rooms which cost 15k; a set of chalets that cost 18k per night, and some more luxury villas ranging from 40k/night for a room to N150k for a 4-bedroom. We stayed in their classic rooms so for two people sharing that’s N7,500 each. We asked to pick our rooms and they let us view all the available classic rooms.
Main Building with Classic rooms
The Villas

 You can tell that it’s an old building with ceiling fans and an old style bathroom but that’s part of the charm. My friends loved the old-timey feel. I’m more of an ultramodern girl myself when it comes to hotels and especially bathrooms, but I found myself feeling the charm by day 2. There’s a TV, a fridge, a hot water kettle for tea, wardrobes, a dining table and chairs. Simple, functional stuff. The intercom in my room wasn’t working and they graciously offered to change the room when I noticed but I didn’t want to move. A worker gave me her number so I’d just call.
 The bathroom has hot and cold running water and a tiny shower stall.
Like many old spaces, the room was big and very airy. My favourite part of the room was the balcony with a view of palm trees, and the lagoon in the distance. 

It was bliss waking up in the morning and sitting out there. The bed was huge- big enough for 3 people to sleep on comfortably so if you really want to save, that’s an option. No shame in that. My girls and I used to be 3-4 in a hotel room when we were in school and needed to have a Girls trip. Best times of our lives I tell you. Then we couldn’t wait to have money and now we miss those days (Not that we’re now rich or anything, just less broke).

Facilities and Activities at Whispering Palms
It’s a big place. On Day 1 we requested a tour. They have an outdoor pool, an outdoor gym, a mini zoo with monkeys, a baboon, turkeys (didn’t know they live in zoos too), a crocodile and a 103-year old tortoise.
Outdoor gym
You can also play football, basketball, tennis and volleyball. They have a restaurant and I think 2 bars. We took an evening walk by the Lagoon and there was this cool breeze coming from the water that gave me life.

 We went by the Coconut Dispensary- I love that name- where you get fresh coconut to drink for just N200.
Source: Whisperingpalmslagos.com

The plan (not my idea) for Day 2 was to wake up early and work out in the outdoor gym but God made it rain that morning and we slept in. Praaaise God! The weather cooperated throughout our stay. That rain didn’t last till 10am and we went outside to meet mild weather- a beautiful day for outdoor activities. They have Quadracycles to ride in twos. If you're alone, a member of staff can ride with you.

It’s N1000 but don’t be afraid to negotiate. The person on the left has control so switch up if you both want to steer. This was so much fun. They said the 1k buys you 20 minutes but they didn’t stop us when the 20 minutes were up. We all rode for about 30 minutes before we wanted to do something else.
Out on the Lagoon they have these yellow rowboats you can ride for N1000. 

Source: Whisperingpalmslagos.com

Unfortunately, the water level was too low that day, even with the rain earlier, so we couldn’t ride. We changed into our swimsuits and spent the evening swimming and sipping on coconuts (and Gin).

Is this baby girl life even complete if you’re not sipping on a coconut, poolside?

On Day 3 we took an early morning walk around the grounds to take in the scenery.

Seriously, what flower is this? I love it
We also discovered swings close to the bar and the water. I probably spent too long swinging.
After that, we went out to take a tour of Badagry. If you need Whispering Palms to arrange the tour, complete with a bus, a tour guide and light refreshments; that’s N12,000 for every two people involved (6k each if you’re contributing). If you’re using your own car, N7000 for every two (N3500 each). 
We called our Badagry person to take us and we went independently. After going on the tour though, we thought the Whispering Palms cost was actually fair and we tipped our friend well.
Badagry is an ancient town famous for slave trade. They have a lot of museums and relics of the slave trade era. I’d love to share all about that but this post will be too long. Maybe a separate post?

Food is the expensive part of Whispering Palms. No matter what you’re eating, average cost is N3000. Whether it’s yam and eggs for breakfast, poundo yam for lunch or basic rice, hold your 3k. If you plan to eat three meals per day, it adds up. Our snacks came in handy; we each had 2 meals a day. The food is alright. The fried rice isn’t great so pick Jollof. It won’t be the best Jollof you ever had but it will do. They’re better at soups. Their egg sauce is okay too. The turkey is nice. Order an hour before you intend to eat because the food is made-to-order.
This tree overhangs a walkway that leads to the bar
Moremi statue and story

The Service
Everyone was so polite; they’ll greet you with a smile and answer all your questions patiently. I was impressed. Maybe when you work in such a relaxing environment, you’re happier. 
Once you’ve paid for your room, you’re a registered guest and your meals and activities get added to your tab until checkout. None of that annoying insistence on pay-as-you-go like some hotels in this country. They’re also willing to waive certain charges for lodging guests. They eventually didn’t charge us for the Quadracycle ride. You may have to call to remind them of something you asked for before, but generally they were proactive and very helpful.

Light isn’t on 24 hours if NEPA strikes. You’re assured of 12 hours a day: from 4pm to 10am. If you don’t ask they won’t tell you and that’s not fair. However we didn’t mind because we were mostly out doing stuff from 10am to 4pm anyway.

Total Cost: We spent approximately N50,000 each including snacks and fuel. Some less, some more. Depends on what you eat. You can hold up to N65,000 each to be very safe, especially if rooms are N20,000 and you’re paying for the tour. This is about £100-120 and $150-170 each if you have 2 persons sharing a room. Less if you’re more in number.

  •         Call ahead to confirm current prices.
  •         Take snacks and water (for a day trip, I don’t know if this is allowed).
  •          Negotiate prices of activities especially if you’re many.
  •          Order your food at least an hour before you want to eat.
  •          Tour Badgary.
  •          Bring swimwear, slippers and sandals, and airy little clothes.
  •          Don’t sit indoors! Come out and do stuff.  Swing. Play with water. Sip coconuts. And take a picture with a flower in your hair.

Will I go again? Most definitely. We’re already talking about going in an even bigger group next holiday.

Have you been to Whsipering Palms or Badagry before?